I can sympathize with the role of chair being seen as onerous. Here's an example of why that can be. When I was co-opted to our Parish Council partway through this year I found the standing orders had not been reviewed for 5 years and the financial regulations had not been reviewed for 16 years. The Clerk told me it wasn't necessary because "we're only a small village". With Council approval I took on the task of updating to the NALC model documents, getting the Clerk to (reluctantly) fill-in the blanks to show how our PC operates, and then get the other councilors to review the documents so they could be approved at a full council meeting. There was no enthusiasm for doing this from the Clerk or the other councilors. Same story with the Publication Scheme and with the GDPR documents.
Our Clerk (and RFO), who's 86, wants the Parish Council to operate the way it has throughout her 21 years as its Clerk. She's never had any training for the role, is not a member of any professional body, and is using an Arnold Baker from 2007. She says all other small village parish councils operate her way and that I'm being ridiculous to think otherwise.
At some point I realized that our Council was probably operating illegally because the previous chair had resigned at the last AGM (May 23) so there had been no chair for over 4 months. There was a vice-chair but he hadn't exchanged any email with the clerk or other councilors, or attended a PC meeting (held bi-monthly), for over 5 months. Nobody else was prepared to be chair. I said I would accept that role but only on condition that each councilor would accept a portfolio role to help share the load. I was voted in as chair at the last meeting but 2 councilors resigned. With difficultly we have just managed to find replacements who've applied to be co-opted at the next meeting.
Now it's time for the Annual Parish Meeting and Parish Council AGM. I want the AGM to include the list of tasks set out in our new the standing orders and financial regulations, but am again being told it's not necessary for a small village. Until now signing the AGAR has essentially been a box-ticking exercise between the Clerk and chairperson, with no vote by Council. We're unlikely to be able to honestly say "yes" to all the assertions in section 1 of the AGAR because the PC has not got a budget, and has not held a risk assessment meeting this year - it just has a risk assessment document that's updated unilaterally by the Clerk with little input from Council.
An email from our Clerk this week said "You seem to be obsessed with protocol and rules. I haven’t a clue what you are talking about in most of the emails you have sent. I despair – the Parish seems to be totally forgotten". I don't know why she says the latter, because I'm involved in many PC activities for the village including managing the website, dealing with Highways, local developers, etc., all with Council approval at minuted full meetings.
So I seem to be in conflict with a Clerk who doesn't appear to understand the role of a Clerk in 2024 (IMHO). The other councilors don't really want to be involved in any PC work other than attending the bi-monthly meetings, and I fear will leave if they're exposed to "unnecessary bureaucratic nonsense". My role as chair feels pretty onerous to me.
Is what's happening in my village really that unusual? If other PC's operate with low workload and stress, please tell me how you do it. Am I the problem? Any advice would be appreciated.