Our clerk had a habit of being rude, unhelpful and really quite vindictive to Councillors and the public. At the same time, he could turn on the charm. You never knew which version you were going to get.
Previous councillors came and went, worn down by this Clerk. I decided, as the new Chair, that this behaviour needed to be addressed. As councillors (only 1+ quorate), we read and understood the disciplinary procedure, the first step being 'to informally meet with the Clerk and discuss how we could highlight issues from both sides and find a way of moving forward amicably'.
Well to say that we fell at the first step would be an understatement - one councillor resigned due to the clerks behaviour and the other two flatly refused to proceed with the informal meeting. They both knew that the clerk was a bully, but they were 'too scared' to proceed.
So, without their support, I had no option other than to resign because I just wasn't prepared to put up with such behaviour but felt I couldn't do anything about it. We are all volunteers after all.