Are you subscribed to NALC?
So, the reason I ask is that, it seems to me, that so many of these types of systemic problems could / should more easily be addressed by the overarching support organisation.
They do it with model standing orders, they could just as easily do it with more (there are already some) templates and formats for routine issues which could then be ‘personalised’ by individual member councils.
All town and parish councils do similar work, they all have similar problems and they could all benefit from a single fit for purpose general operating template which could be personalised and adopted by each subscribed council.
So I think there is a much bigger role in fixing (and a lot of responsibility for the apparent deficiencies) of issues across nationwide councils which sits with NALC. Rather than messing around with the likes of the civility and respect project, aligning themselves with SLCC and failing to properly serve Cllrs, many of the issues which manifest here are as a consequence of Cllrs not having adequate support from, well, anywhere really.