Hello, I’m after some advice please regarding a councillors conduct whilst not on town council time. Earlier in the year (April) one of our councillors was out canvassing for his political party. He approached a house, knocked once then immediately opened the door with the top half of his body entering the property. The lady of the house was on the phone talking, our councillor mistakenly thought he heard her say hello (she was in fact talking to the person on the phone). The lady was very angry at the time and shouted at our cllr, he was then quite rude back which upset her further. He wasn’t wearing ID so she did know who this man was trying to enter her property (she had just had a baby too).
She contacted the political party to complain, they refused to deal with the complaint telling her this Cllr was no longer part of their party (this is untrue)
So many months later she realised he was in fact a town Cllr so made a complaint to us. I met with her and and she was very angry, initially wanting him disciplined and removed. I listened to her complaint and asked her realistically what her preferred outcome was? Bearing in mind this Cllr wasn’t on town council business at the time. She said she’d be happy with an apology and some reassurance that our Cllrs would be told they shouldn’t enter people’s property without permission at any time.
I shared this with the chair and the Cllr in question but he is refusing point blank to apologise and won’t let me apologise on his behalf. He’s really making it into a huge deal and sharing it with the Cllrs he knows will agree with him.
I feel I need to protect the interests of our council and feel an apology is reasonable but he is threatening to quit if I apologise for him. It’s worth mentioning here that he’s an elderly gentleman who sometimes forgets and misunderstands. The chair agreed with me that it is appropriate to apologise but the other Cllrs he has told disagrees.
I’m worried this situation in going to impact on his health, as I’ve said he’s elderly (almost 90) so I’m trying to be sensitive to the generation gap. But I also know the lady who complained is likely to go on social media and possibly the press, she called the Police at the time.
What would you all advise? Send a letter explaining there’s no further action to be taken and he wasn’t on town council business, or send the apology and potentially make him poorly and lose him from the council.
Please help! Thanks and Merry Christmas